Recover from Betrayal
Infidelity Counselling for Couples
A compassionate process to restore trust, safety, and emotional connection, at your pace.
“Uri has been instrumental in helping us reconnect after our relationship fell apart.”
– Female, 42, Sydney
"We both felt seen and heard.”
– Male, 33, Brisbane
Choose a time that works for you.
Free, confidential, no pressure.
From broken promises to Connection and Trust
How Relationship Counselling Helps Rebuild Trust
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Safety & Truth
A compassionate space where honesty begins the healing—safe enough to face the hurt.
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Explore the Why
Uncover the causes beneath the betrayal—turn confusion into clarity and even hope.
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Own & Repair
Take responsibility, become accountable and rebuild trust through consistent, meaningful actions.
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Move Beyond Blame
Shift from blame to understanding—together, you find hope on the other side.
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Establish Boundaries
Establish clear agreements and rituals of safety—an opportunity to rebuild trust and stability.
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Emotional Regulation
Learn tools to soothe hurt and fear—so your heart can calm and healing can begin.
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Reconnect Intimately
Rediscover closeness through vulnerability and shared meaning, beyond the crisis.
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Build Resilient Habits
Regular affirmations and check-ins help transform a crisis into a lasting connection.
Your Guide: Uri Bookman
Hi, I’m Uri Bookman. As a trauma-informed relationship therapist, I support thoughtful couples through a grounded, emotionally intelligent process.
We don’t rush healing — we rebuild trust step by step, with clarity, compassion, and safety.
Start with a free 20-minute consultation.
Begin rebuilding trust at your pace.
Stories of Healing and Growth
A Confidential and Safe Space
Infidelity brings shame, anger, and fear. In counselling, you’ll find:
A confidential, judgement-free space.
Neutral facilitation where both partners feel heard.
Support to share even the most difficult truths safely.
Infidelity healing doesn’t always begin with booking a call—and that’s okay. Take your time. You’re not alone, and when you’re ready, I’ll be here.
In the meantime, I’d like to help you right now with something practical and immediate:
Send me the free PDF: Own & Repair Toolkit: A Roadmap for Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal.
Not Ready to Talk Yet? Let’s Stay Connected.
I’ll send it straight to your inbox and personally follow up to see if counselling feels right for you — no pressure.
Got Questions? You’re Not Alone.
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Every couple’s healing journey is unique, so it’s impossible to predict an exact number right away. But here’s a helpful way to think about it:
Start with three sessions. That gives us time to create emotional safety, explore the betrayal, and begin repair.
Often, couples who get this far—knowing there’s something real to work with—choose to continue.
Many find that 6–12 sessions allows enough space for deeper healing and trust to rebuild. Some need more, some less.
Research shows that couples who engage in structured therapy post‑infidelity have 50–70% better odds of restoring trust and connection.
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Absolutely — everything shared in our sessions remains confidential, following professional counselling standards. Any limits (e.g., risk of harm) are clearly explained upfront.
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Yes, sessions are available online (via secure video), as well as in-person. This gives you the flexibility to choose what feels safe and comfortable.
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Our first session is designed as a warm, listening space, where both partners are invited to share what matters most—you’ll be held with compassion, not pressure.
You’ll each have a chance to share your goals and your pain, helping me understand what’s most important to you both.
This isn’t about assigning blame—it’s about creating a safe foundation where healing begins. My role is not to judge, but to help you feel heard and stabilised.
We’ll also discuss what comes next: how therapy can support you—whether that’s slowing down the crisis, mapping out a healing path, or helping you decide what next steps feel right for your relationship.
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Yes. Healing after infidelity is possible—and couples who engage in counselling often find renewed trust and connection.
I will proceed with care and provide you with a, safe, non-judgmental space to explore the hurt, rebuild emotional intimacy, and rediscover hope.
While infidelity shakes a relationship to its core, many couples emerge stronger—healing not just the betrayal, but building something more honest and resilient.
The journey begins with understanding and emotional support—not perfection. Counselling works best when you’re both willing to show up, take accountability, and lean into repair and connection.