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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>It takes courage to look into the mirror</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Persecutor: The persecutor blames and criticises others, maintaining a position of power and control. Victim: The victim feels oppressed, helpless, and powerless. Rescuer: The rescuer intervenes to save the victim, often at the expense of their own needs.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Practice mindfulness A grounding practice Deep breathing Meditation Movement A conversation with a good listener A walk in nature What else brings you into presence?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>“Window of Tolerance” is a term originally coined by Dr. Dan Siegel and is commonly used to understand and describe normal brain/body reactions, especially following adversity.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Trauma can severely limit our window of tolerance and impact our nervous System and our relationships</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>This is our optimal zone and a large part of our work is to remember and discover more ways to return to this state.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Be Courageously Honest - about the impact on yourself and others. Educate Yourself - there are many resource to teach you about inner critic work. Seek Support - Cultivate awareness and develop tools to navigate and overcome the challenges posed by your inner critic. Enjoy a more fulfilling life - You deserve to be alive and free.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Danger Zone - Core statement: “I can’t keep going.” When a relationship is in a state of crisis, it can become unstable and risky. Both partners may be hurting and find themselves stuck in a cycle of defensive and aggressive behaviour. This negatively impacts loved ones such as children, family, and friends. Growth Zone -Core statement: “I am responsible.” Welcome to the growth zone, a space that may feel like navigating through sandpaper. However, there is hope as you notice the shifts resulting from your hard work. These shifts signal the relief of progress and greater safety as you move away from the danger zone. There is still plenty of work ahead. Blossom Zone - Core statement: “I am loving it.” The blossom zone is an ideal place for us to grow and flourish, both individually and as a couple. Here, we can continue to appreciate each other and cultivate a thriving relationship. This space enables us to offer the best support and care to our children and loved ones.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Pillars in a Buddhist temple, symbolising the foundations that hold us steady as everything else changes — a visual metaphor for the principles guiding my work with individuals, couples, and groups.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog - Weaving Connections: The Crucial Role of Relationships in Life and Business - A simple yet powerful concept</image:title>
      <image:caption>By working on ourselves by being honest and courageous with ourselves, we can make a real difference in the world around us.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Life speaks to us with signals through dreams, body symptoms, events and more. By exploring and following those signals, we tap into the incredible wisdom of our dream body.</image:caption>
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